Journal
of the T. E. Lawrence Society
ISSN 0963-1747 Vol.
VI, No. 2, Spring 1997
Edited by
Philip Kerrigan
Thomas Hardy and T. E. Lawrence:
A Literary Friendship
Susan H. Warren
If friendship can be defined as a mutual regard cherished by kindred minds, then the relationship between Thomas Hardy and T. E. Lawrence was surely a friendship of the highest order. By the end of World War I, due to his exploits in Arabia, Lawrence had become a household word. Hardy, meanwhile, forty-eight years Lawrence's senior, was a highly respected author and poet who was still a voice from the Victorian era through his novels and poetry. Though it is widely acknowledged that Hardy's poetry remained somewhat static in style; that the mature Hardy's poems were similar in theme to his early works and, therefore, difficult to date accurately; it is possible that some of Hardy's poems written between 1923 and his death in 1928 show traces of influence from this remarkable friendship. Exploration of several areas of both
men's writings, their philosophies, and the friendship itself, reveals interesting similarities and phrases in at least two of Hardy's dateable poems, which may be a result of Lawrence's frequent presence at Max Gate, Florence and Thomas Hardy's Dorset home.
In 1922, Lawrence, with the Arab Revolt a mere five years behind him, tried to shake the fame that had been thrust upon him, by joining the fledgling Royal Air Force under the assumed names of Ross, and later on, Shaw. During the years between the war and the RAF, Lawrence had spent several months in residence as a Fellow at All Souls' College, Oxford1 where he had the chance to cultivate the acquaintances and friendships of many men of letters: George Bernard Shaw, E. M. Forster, Edward Garnett (Nutting, p. 196), Robert Graves, Siegfried Sassoon and Edmund Blunden (Mack, p. 286). It was through this friendship with Robert Graves, who knew the Hardys, that an introduction was arranged. In a letter dated 20 March 1923, Lawrence commented to Graves: 'He's a proper poet and a fair novelist, in my judgement, and it would give me a feeling of another milestone passed if I might meet him. . .' (J. Wilson, p. 258). Five days later, at Graves' suggestion, Lawrence wrote to Mrs Hardy, introducing himself, requesting a meeting, and offering the compliment that 'The Dynasts and the other poems are so wholly good to my taste'
(ibid., p. 258).
On 29 March, Lawrence made the first of many calls to Max Gate
(ibid., p.715). Lawrence had long admired Hardy's poetical style as he had included four of Hardy's poems - 'To the Moon,' 'When I set out for Lyonnesse,' 'The Ivy-Wife,' and 'The Impercipient: (At a Cathedral Service)' plus the final chorus from
The Dynasts - in a personal anthology of poems later published under the title of
Minorities2 (Lawrence, 1971, p. 53-64).
A Hardy biographer, Michael Millgate, firmly states that there was a camaraderie from the start:
'liking and admiration on both sides was immediate and strong, and Lawrence returned to Max Gate whenever his duties would allow him to do so, trying (not always successfully) to avoid encounters with other visitors who might know and recognise him.' (p. 549).
During that first spring, Lawrence made three visits and Mrs Hardy felt he was 'a most brilliant, magnetic young
man'3 (Gittings and Manton, p.96). In June, Lawrence returned their hospitality by entertaining them and E. M. Forster at a 'sumptuous tea' at his cosy, yet simple cottage located near Moreton in Dorset (Millgate, p. 554). Jeremy Wilson, in his 1989 biography of T. E. Lawrence, maintains that 'during the summer Lawrence's new friendship with the Hardys had deepened. He now visited Max Gate. . . at least once a fortnight' (p. 722). This meant he had to contend with the Hardys' fearsome Caesar terrier, Wessex. Apparently the 'indulged dog was a menace to all guests. . . According to Cynthia Asquith, [a guest], it "contested" every forkful on the way to her mouth. . . The respectable trousers of both John Galsworthy and the surgeon, Sir Frederick Treves, were reduced to tatters. . . Only T. E. Lawrence of Arabia, perhaps by some esoteric desert magic, managed to remain unscathed' (Brown and Cave, p. 178; Gittings, p. 207).
Lawrence's mesmerizing effect had obviously reached beyond Wessex to the Hardys themselves, and
to their tight circle of acquaintances. In a letter to Florence Barger, E. M. Forster wrote: 'To be with him [Lawrence], or to read him, is a great experience, as he has the power of making one feel one could do all he has done. I don't know whether this is a mark of genius, certainly few people have it' (Brown and Cave, frontispiece). Florence Hardy echoed these sentiments in a letter of her own to Louisa Yearsley, her younger, more urbane friend (Gittings, p. 181):
'he "utterly captivated" Hardy by a life and personality that had been so unlike Hardy's own'
(ibid., p.204). Gittings states further that members of Hardy's tight literary circle such as Siegfried Sassoon, Walter de la Mare, E.M. Forster, John Galsworthy and J.M. Barrie
(ibid., p. 194) were frequent guests at Max Gate and were fascinated by Hardy: 'To them he seemed a living link with an incredible past of English letters, a Victorian who had achieved his reputation before the Queen died, now creating work that was as much of the twentieth century as their own'
(ibid., p. 204). This statement alone indicates forward-thinking changes in Hardy's style, which critics, in general, seem reluctant to acknowledge.
As the months of 1923 and 1924 passed, the childless Hardy developed an extraordinary affection for Lawrence (a role Lawrence also played to the [George Bernard] Shaws) - almost as a surrogate son (Brown and Cave, p.178). Since Thomas Hardy left no intimate journals and apparently wrote few letters of a personal nature (Hynes, p. 8), the inner details - his private feelings about people, books, triumphs, despair - are denied to scholars. For glimpses into the mind of Hardy, we must turn to Florence Hardy, who maintained a lively correspondence with friends. She may have spoken for both of them when she wrote to Sydney Cockerell in 1927: 'He [Lawrence] is one of the few entirely satisfactory people in the world. He can be so very kind' (Mack, p. 344). And
in a letter to Robert Graves, the man responsible for their friendship, Mrs Hardy wrote: 'I consider him the most marvellous human being I have ever met. It is not his exploits in Arabia that attract me, nor the fact that he is a celebrity: it is his character that is so splendid' (Mack, p.447).
With shining recommendations such as these, Lawrence must have had some impact on Hardy. It is unimaginable that conversational topics encompassed only such mundane issues as Wessex's latest escapades or Lawrence's newest Brough Superior motorcycle, when Lawrence himself recorded in a letter to Robert Graves that 'he [Hardy] takes me as soberly as he would take John Milton (how sober that name is), considers me as carefully, is as interested in me. . .' (Lawrence,
Letters, p.430). Lawrence did not write compliments such as this one capriciously.
If Lawrence did indeed have an impact on Hardy, he was not the first to do so. Although most critics hold a consensus of opinion that Hardy's poetry shows little sign of outside influence, Hardy himself, in a rare personal note, wrote of his friend, Sir Leslie Stephen, remarking that, 'Stephen's philosophy influenced [my] own for many years, indeed, more than that of any other contemporary' (Orel, p.139). Mr Orel, in his article on the literary friendships of Thomas Hardy, maintains that 'Stephen gave Hardy more lucid, usable advice than any other editor in his entire career'
(ibid., p.139). Lawrence may not have given Hardy advice, but their minds had similar attitudes towards life and literature.
Lawrence may have been a celebrity of sorts and a quasi-eccentric, but he was also known to have a streak of stoicism which must have appealed to Hardy. According to critic Samuel Hynes, three themes constantly reappear in Hardy's poetry: 'mutability and the passing of time, mortality, and the courage of stoicism' (p.179). Lawrence had made a career out of self-denial, testing
himself, and pushing his limits. 'In Lawrence was a hardness with self, an unforgivingness, a stoicism, a refusal of indulgence' (Pfaff, p.115). Thomas Hardy may have seen in Lawrence the person he longed to be when he wrote in his poem 'Epitaph': 'I never cared for life: Life cared for me
| And hence I owed it some fidelity' (Poems, p.695). In his own individual expression, Lawrence felt so strongly about not caring for life that he personally carved 'Does not care' in Greek letters on the stone lintel of the front door to his cottage (Mack, photograph between pp. 420 and 421). Lawrence would later write in
The Mint, his account of RAF recruit training: 'Service life in this way teaches a man to live largely on little' (p.248). 'Airmen have no possessions, few ties, little daily care. . . And airmen are cared for as little as they care' (p.249). Hardy must have felt that here was a man cut from the same cloth as he himself.
Besides stoicism, both Hardy and the younger Lawrence shared other obsessive ideas which appear in Lawrence's only poem, 'To S. A.', a dedicatory work (first drafted in 1919-1920, well before Lawrence met Hardy, and polished slightly for the subscribers' printing) prefacing his monumental
Seven Pillars of Wisdom,4 and in a short, reflective poem written by Hardy on the occasion of his eighty-sixth birthday, 'He Never Expected Much'
(Poems, p.886). Samuel Hynes lists these obsessive ideas' of Hardy's as: 'infidelities of all possible kinds, the inevitable loss of love, the destructiveness of time, the implacable indifference of nature, the cruelty of men, the irreversible pastness of the past' (p.4). Considering the fact that 1926 saw both Hardy's eighty-sixth birthday and the publication of
Seven Pillars of Wisdom5, it seems no accident that there are correspondences in both poems. Lawrence writes in the first two stanzas of 'To S. A.' of the inevitable loss of love:
I loved you, so I drew these tides of men into my hands
and wrote my will across the sky in stars
To earn you Freedom, the seven pillared worthy house,
that your eyes might be shining for me
When we came.
Death seemed my servant on the road, till we were near
and saw you waiting:
When you smiled, and in sorrowful envy he outran me
and took you apart:
Into his quietness.
Hardy's version of the inevitable loss of love comes in the second stanza of his poem, 'He Never Expected Much': (p.886)
'Twas then you said, and since have said,
Times since have said,
In that mysterious voice you shed
From clouds and hills around:
'Many have loved me desperately,
Many with smooth serenity ,
While some have shown contempt of me
Till they dropped underground.'
As a point of curiosity, it should be noted that in line four, Hardy chooses a particular combination of words which I find interesting. He employs the phrase 'From clouds and hills around,' which I take as a subtle reference to Lawrence, as the name of Lawrence's cottage was Clouds Hill. Just as Hardy phrases the loss of love through death in the line: 'Till they dropped underground,' Lawrence expands on this thought in the third stanza of 'To S. A.':
Love, the way-weary, groped to your body, our brief wage
ours for the moment
Before earth's soft hand explored your shape, and the blind
worms grew fat upon
Your substance.
The idea of the implacable indifference of nature is set forth by Hardy when he ends the first verse with: 'Never, I own, expected
I | That life would all be fair. ' Lawrence's words are stronger, but still convey a similar message:
Men prayed me that I set our work, the inviolate house,
as a memory of you.
But for fit monument I shattered it, unfinished: and now
The little things creep out to patch themselves hovels
in the marred shadow
Of your gift.
What can be said about Hardy's poetry can, I feel, be said about Lawrence's only poetic effort: 'His poetry is about the effort, and the failures, not about the answers' (Hynes, p.41). The limit of tone in Hardy's poems - 'nostalgic, ironic, pessimistic'
(ibid., p.4) - rings true for Lawrence's 'To S. A.'
Another poem of Hardy's, 'A Philosophical Fantasy', started in 1920, well before the two men met, but revised and completed in 1926, reveals a possible influence by Lawrence. If, as mentioned earlier, Hardy took Lawrence as soberly as he took John Milton, the Walter Bagehot quote: 'Milton. . . made God argue,' which prefaces this poem, makes some degree of connective sense. This poem, which appeared in the January 1927
Fortnightly Review, was explained by Florence Hardy: 'Hardy liked the year to open with a poem of this type from him in some leading review or newspaper. The quotation at the heading, "Milton. . . made God argue," gives the keynote, and the philosophy is as much as he had set forth before, but still a ray of hope is shown for the future of mankind' Hardy, F. p.436). If 'A Philosophical Fantasy' serves as a 'focal point for many of his [Hardy's] poems on the nature of God the Creator' (Southworth, p.105), it is quite easy to imagine that during the revision process on this poem Lawrence may have played Milton to Hardy's God the Creator. Perhaps Lawrence made Hardy argue, acting as a sounding board to help put this poem into its final form.
Lawrence felt that he had betrayed the cause for Arab independence in 1918 by being party to British ambitions in Arabia and the Levant once the Germans were defeated. From the time he was a young boy who held a romantic fascination with the Crusades, he had dreamed of being the instrument by which a people would win their freedom (Hart, p.5). All his life had focused on this goal. His bitterness in 1920 over the outcome of the 1919 Paris Peace Conference, which carved up the Middle East and gave Britain the mandate over Palestine, was forever a blemish on his conscience. With this background in mind, several lines in 'A Philosophical Fantasy' may be direct references to Lawrence's personal disappointment via Hardy's debate between God and man. Several lines into the second verse, Hardy writes:
This evening ere we've parted
Say why you felt fainthearted,
And let your aim be thwarted,
Its glory be diminished,
Its concept stand unfinished?
(Poems, pp.893-897)
Hardy's version of Lawrence's disappointment is similar to that of Lawrence's which was discussed earlier in 'To S. A.': 'But for fit monument I shattered it, unfinished. . .' Lawrence struggled all his adult life for the answer as to why he 'let his aim be thwarted,' but there is no evidence that he ever found it.
The Hardy-Lawrence friendship flourished at this intense level for only about four years, for in 1927, Lawrence was assigned to a posting in India. He and Mrs Hardy would continue to correspond, but the closeness of the relationship had come to an end. Florence Hardy describes Lawrence's final departure from Max Gate:
'Hardy was much affected by this parting, as T. E. Lawrence was one of his most valued friends. He went into the little porch and stood at the front door to see the departure of Lawrence on his motor-bicycle. This machine was difficult to start, and, thinking that he might have to wait some time Hardy turned into the house to fetch a shawl to wrap around him. In the meantime, fearing that Hardy might take a chill, Lawrence started the motor-bicycle and hurried away. Returning a few moments after, Hardy was grieved that he had not seen the actual departure, and said that he had particularly wished to see Lawrence go.' (Hyde, p.129).
It is more than likely each felt that he would not see the other again, as was the case, for Hardy passed away in 1928. Mrs Hardy was convinced that had Lawrence been in England rather than in India, her husband might have lived. After the funeral, Florence Hardy wrote to Lawrence: 'You seem nearer to him, somehow, than anyone else, certainly more akin' (Brown and Cave, p.178).
Assessing the influences of one man upon the works of another is hardly an exact science, especially when both are famous in their own right. Hardy's lack of personal writings does not help the situation, nor does Lawrence's habitual self-effacement. We must rely on Florence Hardy's insights and comments as to the bond between the two men, along with marked similarities in personal philosophies and poetical ideas, to piece together the total picture. If indeed Lawrence was as close to Thomas Hardy as the evidence and personal memoirs indicate, then, human nature being what it is, the elder Hardy would have incorporated traces of this unique and cherished liaison into at least a few of his later poems, if for no other reason than to honour this unusual friendship.
References
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Lawrence held a degree with first class honours in history from Jesus College, Oxford.
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The anthology was comprised of 112 'good poems by small poets, or small poems by good poets' (Lawrence,
Minorities, p. 13), hence the title.
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Lawrence was 35 in 1923.
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The identity of S. A. has never been deciphered. Some biographers maintain that it is a person, while others argue that it is a country or a people.
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Seven Pillars of Wisdom was privately printed by Lawrence for a limited set of subscribers and friends. It was not until 1935, the year of Lawrence's death, that an edition was printed for general circulation. The Hardys were given a copy of the subscribers' edition by Lawrence.
Works Cited
Brown, Malcolm and Julia Cave, A Touch of Genius: The Life of T. E.
Lawrence (New York, Paragon House, 1989).
Gittings, Robert, The Older Hardy (London, Heinemann, 1978); Hardy's Later Years (Boston: Little, Brown & Co., 1978).
Gittings, Robert and Jo Manton, The Second Mrs Hardy (Seattle, University of Washington Press, 1979).
Hardy, Florence Emily, The Life of Thomas Hardy: 1840-1928 (Hamden, CT, Archon Books, 1970).
Hardy, Thomas, The Complete Poems of Thomas Hardy, ed. James Gibson (New York, Macmillan Pub. Co., Inc., 1976).
Hart, B. H. Liddell, Lawrence of Arabia (New York, Da Capo Press Inc., 1989). Reprint of
Colonel Lawrence: The Man Behind the Legend, 1935.
Hyde, H. Montgomery, Solitary in the Ranks (New York, Atheneum, 1978).
Hynes, Samuel, The Pattern of Hardy's Poetry (Chapel Hill, University of North Carolina Press, 1961).
Lawrence, T.E., The Letters of T. E. Lawrence, ed. David Garnett (New York, Doubleday, Doran & Co., Inc,. 1939).
Lawrence, T.E. (compiler), Minorities, ed. J. M. Wilson (London, Jonathan Cape,1971).
Lawrence, T.E., The Mint, 1936,1955. (New York, W. W. Norton & Co., Inc., 1963).
Lawrence, T.E., Seven Pillars of Wisdom: A Triumph (Garden City, NY, Doubleday, Doran & Co., Inc., 1935).
Mack, John E, A Prince of our Disorder (Boston: Little, Brown, & Co., 1976).
Millgate, Michael, Thomas Hardy: A Biography (New York, Random House, 1982).
Nutting, Anthony, Lawrence of Arabia (New York, New American Library,1961).
Orel, Harold 'The Literary Friendships of Thomas Hardy', English Literature in
Transition, 24 (1981): pp. 131-144.
Pfaff, William.'The Fallen Hero', The New Yorker, 8 May 1989, p.105-115.
Southworth, James Granville, The Poetry of Thomas Hardy (New York, Columbia University Press, 1947).
Wilson, J.M., Lawrence of Arabia: The Authorised Biography (London, Heinemann, 1989).
Wilson, J. M. ed. Notes in Minorities (London, Jonathan Cape, 1971).
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